Celebrating the life of
Michael Conway Valentine
February 21, 1942 - February 15, 2014
Michael Valentine
Michael Valentine died peacefully on February 15 at his home in The Landings, Savannah, Georgia. Michael fought and bowed to cancer with the humor and graciousness that characterized his life.
Born in Wichita, Kansas on February 21, 1942, Michael grew up in the West and Midwest. In 1962 he served in Ecuador as one of the first Peace Corps volunteers.
On his return to the United States, he worked as a Peace Corps recruiter, was later selected for a community development assignment in Vietnam by the Agency for International Development, and trained at the Foreign Service Institute. This path ended in 1964 when the US became active combatants in that country.
He was recruited in 1965 by the Governor's Office in Alaska to set up programs under the Economic Opportunity Act of 1964. Two years later he moved to Athens, OH to work with Ohio University's Institute for Regional Development extending critical resources into Southeast Ohio and Appalachia.
In the late 60s and early 70's, Michael took his passions for human and community development to the political arena. He worked on Robert Kennedy's and Hubert Humphrey's Presidential campaigns, supported John Glenn's run for Senator in Ohio, and played a key role in the successful Colorado congressional primary campaign of Alan Merson.
In 1972 Michael moved to Boston, married Ruth Taylor in 1975 and began a thirty-year career transforming the way by which philanthropy impacted medical institutions. He began at the Medical Foundation, and then moved to University Hospital and subsequently the Eye Research Institute. In Boston Michael forged his signature approach: build strong relationships and relate the raising of money to spending it effectively.
In 1991, Michael was recruited to head the Foundation for Stamford Hospital in Connecticut. He later accepted a development leadership position at Northeast Health System in Beverly MA where he created a foundation to support its affiliate hospitals.
In 2007, he retired with Ruth to Savannah, GA. In addition to his wife he is survived by his three children: Dr. Sabina Valentine David Gartner of Berlin, Germany; Taylor Valentine Andrea Masters Valentine of Brooklyn NY; Allison Brisbois Clayton Brisbois of Havertown, PA. Michael also leaves his sister Yvonne Sonner of Boise, ID, and many nieces and nephews. His spirit and legacy will be carried on by five and soon to be six grandchildren: Clara and Mika Valentine; Andrew, Zachary, and Carissa Brisbois; and granddaughter Valentine Taylor and Andrea due in March.
The family requests that friends who wish to honor Michael do so with a donation to a cause they know Michael would have embraced: one that makes the world—as he did—a more cheerful and compassionate place.
Fox and Weeks Funeral Directors, Hodgson Chapel
A great man who left behind a wonderful legacy.
- L. Shaughnessy , Windham, NH
I was one of Michael's Classmates 1959. I remember Michael as a kind sort of fellow with a smile on his face. I moved to Ephrata in the 8th grade and stayed through the 12th grade, before moving to the West Coast. Michael was a good representative of our class. God bless you all.
- Judith L CaryBombard, Kent, WA
It was my pleasure to have been able to keep in contact with Ruth & Michael over the past several years. I attended school with Mike in Ephrata, WA for a couple of years in the mid 50s but had no contact with him for many years. We were able to meet with Mike, Ruth and two of their children about 15 years ago at Oasis Park in Ephrata while they were visiting Washington State. We have been in contact since that time. Mike and Ruth attended one of our Ephrata Class of 1959 reunions. Such fun to all spend time together again and to share our funfilled, youthful memories. Mike made a big impression on our classmates, in the mid 50s, with his good nature and positive attitude. He obviously made a great impression wherever he lived and worked during his lifetime. It is my honor to be aquainted with Michael and Ruth.
- Shannon Harris Behrens, Ephrata, WA
I went to Junior High and High School in Ephrata, Washington with Mike. I remember him being very good natured, considerate and fun to be around. It was very nice to get reacquainted with him at one of our Class Reunions. He also contributed a biography of himself for the memory book of our 50th Class Reunion. I would have enjoyed getting to know Mike better sorry that his family moved and that he wasn't able to finish high school in Ephrata. My sincere condolences to Ruth and all of Mike's family.
- Craig Fiess, Sacramento, CA
I am very sorry to hear of Mike's passing. I am a classmate from Ephrata High School and Mike took me to my first prom dance as freshman's. It was a big deal to me. We walked to the dance in formal and suit. My sincere sympathy to his family. He was a neat guy.
- Shirley Knobel Hanna, Prescott, AZ
To Ruth, Taylor, Allison, Sabina and Families We were very sad to hear of Mike's passing. We have so many great memories of family times shared together in CT and GA. Our entire family is with you in spirit these days. We will miss Mike's hugs and engaging personality. Fairways and greens old buddy. Paul, Anne, Meredith, Gillian and Brenna
- Paul and Anne Patrick, Charlotte, NC
Dear Ruth, Taylor and family, We are so sad to hear of Michael's passing. Scott and I only met him on a few occasions, but he was always filled with good humor and fun to be around. Our thoughts are with you at this time. With love, Scott and Valerie Becker Cooper.
- valerie r. becker, ridgefield, CT
Ruth- I knew mike from myopia where he was a terrific golfer and better person!I was never at his level but he was always the perfect gentleman and took great interest in my boys which I won't forget any time soon! My thoughts and prayers are with you and the family. Don Cregg
- Donald Cregg, Topsfield, MA
My sincerest sympathy to Ruth and family.
- Lloyd wood, Savannah, GA
Dear Ruth and Family, My deepest condolences to all of you. I worked with Mike for eight years at Stamford Hospital Foundation. Mike was a terrific person and great mentor. He also was lots of fun on the golf course! My thought and prayers are with you.
- Laura Martino, GUILFORD, CT
Dear Tudi, Sabina and family, I am sorry to hear of Michael's passing. Through my in-laws Bob and Barbara Gale I probably had the pleasure of his company only a handful of times, but he was one of their friends who made a lasting impression. His joyful nature and generous spirit will not be forgotten.
- MaryLou Gale, Whittier, CA
Taylor and Family, We are heartbroken for you. Y ou are all in our thoughts. Sending big hugs, Patty and Scott Lundin
- Patty, Newton, MA
Dear Ruth, Taylor, Allison, Sabina and family, We are heart broken to hear of Michael's passing. His enthusiasm for life was infectious, as was his smile! The world has lost a special man. Our hearts and prayers are with you…. Judy & Paul
- Judy & Paul Malton, Sarasota, FL
With deepest sympathy to the family for the loss of your dear loved one. During this most difficult time, may you be comforted by Jehovah God's promise at Rev. 21:4 'And he will wipe out every tear from their eyes, and death will be no more, neither will mourning nor outcry nor pain be anymore. The former things have passed away.'
- Annie Thomas, Snellville, GA
Dear Ruth and Family, So, so sorry to hear about Mike. As you know, he was Dr. Al's biggest supporter and a true friend. Our belief is they are together again re-newing this friendship in ways we cannot begin to understand. Please know you are all in our prayers. Steve and Ramona Mastrangelo
- Steven Mastrangelo, Macon, GA
Dear Ruth and Family: My thoughts are with you during this time. I will never forget Mike; he always made me laugh. And my folks cherished the relationship they shared with you both. Sincerely, Elli Mastrangelo
- Elli Mastrangelo, Macon, GA
Ruth and family...Bill and I are so saddened by hearing of Mike's passing! Our hearts are with you. I have to share that I remember the day I met Mike Alli's soccer practice! and the effect his smile had on me. We send a big hug to each of you... xo
- Christina Tugeau, Williamsburg, VA
My deepest sympathies and condolences to the Valentine family. I had the pleasure of working with Michael at Beverly Hospital. He had a positive impact on everyone he touched and he will be missed.
- Peter Short, Beverly, MA
So many reading this will share in my feelings and momories: I will never have another friend who could make me believe so much in a wild story. I could be talking about almost anything, and he would say that would remind him of something similar. At first I would always say to myself, he is telling one of his jokes. However, as the story progressed, it became almost believable, since he added so many details, which would fit into what we were talking about. Once he set the hook, I would bite hard, wanting to know more and even ask questions, which he would answer. When he would lead me to the last line of the story, I often did not know until seconds later, that he got me again. It was another made-up story, but then the laughs would be even louder. Miss you my friend.
- Bill Snellings, Ridgefield, CT
I'm so shocked and sorry to hear this about Michael! Mike worked with my father at the Medical Foundation in Boston for many years and I always enjoyed running into him whenever I visited my Dad. Mike and my father remained good friends and Mike was there for my Dad at the end of his life. My condolences to Ruth and the rest of her family.
- Alan Mudd, Beverly, MA
Mike was a wonderful, generous person. A long-time colleague of my father's and family friend, he was a funny, joyful guy and I will miss him. My heartfelt condolences to Tudi and his family.
- Sally Mudd, Oakland, CA
Ruth, Allison and Taylor, Donna and I send our deepest regrets to you. I will always remember Mike's hearty laugh, warm personality and his competitive approach to golf. The golf trips with Mike and Taylor will forever be lodged in my memory banks. God bless.
- Peter Karl, Glastonbury, CT
Ruth and family, Barry and I are just heartbroken about Michael. What a wonderful person. We will never forget his passion and his wonderful smile. He always knew how to make everyone laugh!! He will truly be missed. We will keep you in our prayers and please feel free to call me if you just need to chat! 678-956-0232 OK Girlie! Love you Mo and Barry
- Maureen and Barry Sikes, Bradenton, FL
Ruth, Allison, and Taylor, we were shocked and saddened to learn of Mike's passing, especially right after the birth of a lovely grand child. Our hearts go out to all of you, as we remember the many good times with all of you in Belmont.
- Peter and Sallye Bleiberg and Laura Bothwell, Belmont, MA
Ruth, Allison, and Taylor, we were shocked and saddened to learn of Mike's passing, especially right after the birth of a lovely grand child. Our hearts go out to all of you, as we remember the many good times with all of you in Belmont.
- Peter and Sallye Bleiberg and Laura Bothwell, Belmont, MA
Ruth and family:I know I am not the first and will not be the last to say this. Mike Valentine was a great guy. I heard it first from my Dad who you know worked with Mike in Stamford and from my Mom. They both loved him dearly. Then my husband and I crossed paths with you and Mike again in The Landings. I would ask folks here if they knew Mike and the reply was was always the same: What a great guy! We are sorry for your loss and are thinking of you. Marian and Tom
- Marian Mastrangelo Mackle, Savannah, GA
To the Valentine family: I worked with Mike at Stamford Hospital and now work with Peter Karl and I am friends with Pat and Moira Colangelo. Mike in our hearts will always be one of the 'good guys'.I will miss keeping track of him and offer you my deepest sympathies. He will be missed.
- Deb Gogliettino, Danbury, CT
A great man who left behind a wonderful legacy.
- L. Shaughnessy , Windham, NH
I was one of Michael's Classmates 1959. I remember Michael as a kind sort of fellow with a smile on his face. I moved to Ephrata in the 8th grade and stayed through the 12th grade, before moving to the West Coast. Michael was a good representative of our class. God bless you all.
- Judith L CaryBombard, Kent, WA
It was my pleasure to have been able to keep in contact with Ruth & Michael over the past several years. I attended school with Mike in Ephrata, WA for a couple of years in the mid 50s but had no contact with him for many years. We were able to meet with Mike, Ruth and two of their children about 15 years ago at Oasis Park in Ephrata while they were visiting Washington State. We have been in contact since that time. Mike and Ruth attended one of our Ephrata Class of 1959 reunions. Such fun to all spend time together again and to share our funfilled, youthful memories. Mike made a big impression on our classmates, in the mid 50s, with his good nature and positive attitude. He obviously made a great impression wherever he lived and worked during his lifetime. It is my honor to be aquainted with Michael and Ruth.
- Shannon Harris Behrens, Ephrata, WA
I went to Junior High and High School in Ephrata, Washington with Mike. I remember him being very good natured, considerate and fun to be around. It was very nice to get reacquainted with him at one of our Class Reunions. He also contributed a biography of himself for the memory book of our 50th Class Reunion. I would have enjoyed getting to know Mike better sorry that his family moved and that he wasn't able to finish high school in Ephrata. My sincere condolences to Ruth and all of Mike's family.
- Craig Fiess, Sacramento, CA
I am very sorry to hear of Mike's passing. I am a classmate from Ephrata High School and Mike took me to my first prom dance as freshman's. It was a big deal to me. We walked to the dance in formal and suit. My sincere sympathy to his family. He was a neat guy.
- Shirley Knobel Hanna, Prescott, AZ
To Ruth, Taylor, Allison, Sabina and Families We were very sad to hear of Mike's passing. We have so many great memories of family times shared together in CT and GA. Our entire family is with you in spirit these days. We will miss Mike's hugs and engaging personality. Fairways and greens old buddy. Paul, Anne, Meredith, Gillian and Brenna
- Paul and Anne Patrick, Charlotte, NC
Dear Ruth, Taylor and family, We are so sad to hear of Michael's passing. Scott and I only met him on a few occasions, but he was always filled with good humor and fun to be around. Our thoughts are with you at this time. With love, Scott and Valerie Becker Cooper.
- valerie r. becker, ridgefield, CT
Ruth- I knew mike from myopia where he was a terrific golfer and better person!I was never at his level but he was always the perfect gentleman and took great interest in my boys which I won't forget any time soon! My thoughts and prayers are with you and the family. Don Cregg
- Donald Cregg, Topsfield, MA
My sincerest sympathy to Ruth and family.
- Lloyd wood, Savannah, GA
Dear Ruth and Family, My deepest condolences to all of you. I worked with Mike for eight years at Stamford Hospital Foundation. Mike was a terrific person and great mentor. He also was lots of fun on the golf course! My thought and prayers are with you.
- Laura Martino, GUILFORD, CT
Dear Tudi, Sabina and family, I am sorry to hear of Michael's passing. Through my in-laws Bob and Barbara Gale I probably had the pleasure of his company only a handful of times, but he was one of their friends who made a lasting impression. His joyful nature and generous spirit will not be forgotten.
- MaryLou Gale, Whittier, CA
Taylor and Family, We are heartbroken for you. Y ou are all in our thoughts. Sending big hugs, Patty and Scott Lundin
- Patty, Newton, MA
Dear Ruth, Taylor, Allison, Sabina and family, We are heart broken to hear of Michael's passing. His enthusiasm for life was infectious, as was his smile! The world has lost a special man. Our hearts and prayers are with you…. Judy & Paul
- Judy & Paul Malton, Sarasota, FL
With deepest sympathy to the family for the loss of your dear loved one. During this most difficult time, may you be comforted by Jehovah God's promise at Rev. 21:4 'And he will wipe out every tear from their eyes, and death will be no more, neither will mourning nor outcry nor pain be anymore. The former things have passed away.'
- Annie Thomas, Snellville, GA
Dear Ruth and Family, So, so sorry to hear about Mike. As you know, he was Dr. Al's biggest supporter and a true friend. Our belief is they are together again re-newing this friendship in ways we cannot begin to understand. Please know you are all in our prayers. Steve and Ramona Mastrangelo
- Steven Mastrangelo, Macon, GA
Dear Ruth and Family: My thoughts are with you during this time. I will never forget Mike; he always made me laugh. And my folks cherished the relationship they shared with you both. Sincerely, Elli Mastrangelo
- Elli Mastrangelo, Macon, GA
Ruth and family...Bill and I are so saddened by hearing of Mike's passing! Our hearts are with you. I have to share that I remember the day I met Mike Alli's soccer practice! and the effect his smile had on me. We send a big hug to each of you... xo
- Christina Tugeau, Williamsburg, VA
My deepest sympathies and condolences to the Valentine family. I had the pleasure of working with Michael at Beverly Hospital. He had a positive impact on everyone he touched and he will be missed.
- Peter Short, Beverly, MA
So many reading this will share in my feelings and momories: I will never have another friend who could make me believe so much in a wild story. I could be talking about almost anything, and he would say that would remind him of something similar. At first I would always say to myself, he is telling one of his jokes. However, as the story progressed, it became almost believable, since he added so many details, which would fit into what we were talking about. Once he set the hook, I would bite hard, wanting to know more and even ask questions, which he would answer. When he would lead me to the last line of the story, I often did not know until seconds later, that he got me again. It was another made-up story, but then the laughs would be even louder. Miss you my friend.
- Bill Snellings, Ridgefield, CT
I'm so shocked and sorry to hear this about Michael! Mike worked with my father at the Medical Foundation in Boston for many years and I always enjoyed running into him whenever I visited my Dad. Mike and my father remained good friends and Mike was there for my Dad at the end of his life. My condolences to Ruth and the rest of her family.
- Alan Mudd, Beverly, MA
Mike was a wonderful, generous person. A long-time colleague of my father's and family friend, he was a funny, joyful guy and I will miss him. My heartfelt condolences to Tudi and his family.
- Sally Mudd, Oakland, CA
Ruth, Allison and Taylor, Donna and I send our deepest regrets to you. I will always remember Mike's hearty laugh, warm personality and his competitive approach to golf. The golf trips with Mike and Taylor will forever be lodged in my memory banks. God bless.
- Peter Karl, Glastonbury, CT
Ruth and family, Barry and I are just heartbroken about Michael. What a wonderful person. We will never forget his passion and his wonderful smile. He always knew how to make everyone laugh!! He will truly be missed. We will keep you in our prayers and please feel free to call me if you just need to chat! 678-956-0232 OK Girlie! Love you Mo and Barry
- Maureen and Barry Sikes, Bradenton, FL
Ruth, Allison, and Taylor, we were shocked and saddened to learn of Mike's passing, especially right after the birth of a lovely grand child. Our hearts go out to all of you, as we remember the many good times with all of you in Belmont.
- Peter and Sallye Bleiberg and Laura Bothwell, Belmont, MA
Ruth, Allison, and Taylor, we were shocked and saddened to learn of Mike's passing, especially right after the birth of a lovely grand child. Our hearts go out to all of you, as we remember the many good times with all of you in Belmont.
- Peter and Sallye Bleiberg and Laura Bothwell, Belmont, MA
Ruth and family:I know I am not the first and will not be the last to say this. Mike Valentine was a great guy. I heard it first from my Dad who you know worked with Mike in Stamford and from my Mom. They both loved him dearly. Then my husband and I crossed paths with you and Mike again in The Landings. I would ask folks here if they knew Mike and the reply was was always the same: What a great guy! We are sorry for your loss and are thinking of you. Marian and Tom
- Marian Mastrangelo Mackle, Savannah, GA
To the Valentine family: I worked with Mike at Stamford Hospital and now work with Peter Karl and I am friends with Pat and Moira Colangelo. Mike in our hearts will always be one of the 'good guys'.I will miss keeping track of him and offer you my deepest sympathies. He will be missed.
- Deb Gogliettino, Danbury, CT
Services under the direction of:
Fox & Weeks Funeral Directors, Hodgson Chapel
912-352-7200
